sept.7,2007

Describe in detail your biggest fear. Do you believe it is something that you can overcome? If so, can you do do by yourself or do you need help? When do you believe that you first acquired this fear? Do you believe that it is a rational or irrational fear? Do you think that it is a common fear or is it something particular to you? Do you parents know about it?



Many people have different fear but mine well have to be geting aids. I know most people feel the same way as me but thats my biggest fear cause having aids means losing people you love, dieing early, ect. But I don't think that it's something that I can overcome because you could have a sexual relationship with someone and they don't know that they are infected with aids or if they do know they would not let you know. But everyday millions of people get infected by manyways and you would never know if you would get it in anytime. I can't do it by myself because if I know that it's out there I wouldn't want to do anything with anybody cause with a cut your could get aids.

Well I believe that I first aquired this fear when i had learned about it in like the 5th grade in health class. But when i was in 6th and 7th garde that's when I had learn way more and understood what was really causing aids and how you could get it. I think that my fear it's irrational, because that feeling would never faid away. Everybody you meet you would never think that they would have aids and you could be doing sexual things with them and in back of your mind you thinking that you need to stop cause they could be infected but then you don't want to stop cause it's feeling right. That thought would always be in peoples mind when they are with a partner and aids is something that would never go away, it just spread more and more each day better yet each hour or less.

I think it's a common fear to me, because like I had said that everyday people get infected and it could be a close member of the family and they could have a cut in thier mouth and they are bleeding but don't know it and drink from your cup like they always do and after they drink you take a sip and you'll get it just from a cup. So there's many different ways you could get aids, it don't mean by having unprected sex you could only get it. Yes, my parent know thats my biggest fear, because I always talk to them when I have a boyfriend.